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Day 112 of 366

I'm still in the process of healing. Still trying to learn how to forgive people so I can finally have peace of mind. 

It wasn't easy. Especially when others say things like, "...it was long ago, move on." Little did they know, I always and will always wish that things were easier. That I can just move on already because it was indeed years ago. But things aren't just like that. I still can't fall asleep at night, freezing when it's dark. I still try to find ways on how to have a nap without having nightmares. 

The monster inside my head is a lot more scarier than the one under my bed.

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